Change

Attitude is Everything... BE HAPPY

So many people lately have said " Alyssa you have changed" I find it interesting who is saying what and why...
Yes I have changed. I am confident in myself. I stand up for my self. I will not be put down.
Is that wrong that I have embraced who I am inside and find confidence in a positive change? ABSOLUTELY NOT!
I have had many struggles in my life. Many challenges and decisions that have really effected my life. But if I didn't have them I would never grow and develop the person I am now because of those times.
I have really taken a huge step back and looked at my life and the choices I have made. They have not all been good. In fact a hand full have been not so great. But at least I recognize them and see where I can grow and improve.

There will always be people in my life that with judge my past.They will judge my present and future before anything happens, and they still feel it is OK to make a judgment call on me. But they have never lived my life. I am the one that has been there.

I see peoples struggles and difficulties so differently now. I want to help. I want them to have hope and find peace in themselves.

Nobody is perfect. Nobody will be or can ever expect perfection out of themselves or other. We are human we make mistakes. If we keep making mistakes and never learn from them, then that is a problem. But if we recognize and don't beat our selves up because of unrealistic expectations that we put on ourselves and we feel from others, we will be a lot better off.

So I am finding strength and confidence in difficult times. I know what pushes my buttons now. So I have changed how I react. I am a lot calmer and accepting of advice and what others have to say.

I feel good